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The vast majority of relative groups, friend groups, classmate groups, comrade groups, parent groups... all kinds of groups, slowly become dead groups, eventually falling silent, almost no one speaks. Do you know why? Because without real benefits, people can't persist for long. These groups initially do provide emotional value, but emotional value follows the law of diminishing marginal utility, meaning: the more time passes, the more meaningless it feels. Circles get smaller and smaller, this is a basic rule, as you grow older, all enthusiasm eventually fades. People ultimately realize: that essentially, everyone lives alone, loneliness is the normal state of life, if you mind it, it is loneliness, if you enjoy it, it is freedom, live according to your heart, go with the flow, enjoy solitude, enjoy loneliness. This is the highest realm of life. $BTC

Many people simply live longer, but not wiser. Age can only make a person older, it doesn't necessarily make them smarter. True maturity is never supported by seniority, status, or age, but by whether a person has the ability to take responsibility, a sense of boundaries, the courage to face reality, and the capacity to admit their mistakes. Many so-called "adults" are essentially just bigger children: they shirk responsibility when problems arise, lose their temper when frustrated, envy those stronger than themselves, and oppress those weaker. What they desperately defend is not what is right, but their own long-decayed life logic that they dare not overturn. $BTC

Someone privately messaged me asking: "Do highly knowledgeable people like you also believe in things like feng shui and fate theory?" I told him that many so-called feng shui and fate theories can actually be explained by probability theory, psychology, and sociology. For example, a road with heavy traffic naturally has a higher chance of accidents—that's probability. If I tell you in advance that you are likely to have an accident there, you will become more nervous and sensitive every time you pass by, and your attention and emotions will be affected. This is essentially a psychological suggestion. You can even package it as a secret that cannot be revealed. Feng shui works on the same principle. A person living long-term in a dark, oppressive, and cluttered environment will gradually have their emotions, sleep, and personality affected. Over time, their work state, interpersonal relationships, and so-called "luck" will worsen. Often, it’s not that feng shui truly changes fate, but that the environment shapes a person’s psychology and behavior over the long term. Ancient people didn’t have modern psychology, environmental science, or sociology, so they summarized these long-accumulated experiences into "feng shui" and "fate theory." $BTC

What are the behaviors of a wise person? 1. Greet more, talk less, and interact less. 2. Keep a distance, neither get too close nor completely cut off. 3. Stay calm and never be provoked by petty people. 4. Don’t owe favors, and don’t accept benefits from petty people. 5. With parents, avoid quarrels; with friends, don’t compete for face; with leaders, don’t compete for status; with petty people, don’t argue about principles; with partners, don’t argue about right or wrong. 6. Don’t dwell on things that can’t be changed, and don’t revisit things that have already happened. 7. Don’t get involved in matters unrelated to you, and don’t argue about right or wrong in trivial matters. 8. Even a pig won’t understand until it dies the relationship between the one who holds the knife to slaughter it and the one who feeds it three meals a day. 9. If there are petty people around you, don’t make enemies of them, but don’t be friends either. 10. Use money to solve problems instead of favors; use sweat to solve problems instead of tears. 11. Be magnanimous in small matters, and decisive in big matters. 12. The more you worry about things, the more people will bully you. 13. The highest level of control is not caring. 14. A smile isn’t always politeness; it can also be a warning. 15. Cut off and let go of people and things that drain your energy in time. 16. Control your emotions when expressing yourself, don’t express with emotions. 17. Don’t make decisions when angry. 18. Pretending to be indifferent on the surface allows you to act secretly. 19. Among crowds, the person with the best temper is often the most formidable. 20. Among crowds, the quietest person often has the greatest strength.

How could you be busy your whole life just to feed a body that will eventually age, without ever cherishing the soul that accompanies you until death? You are here to experience life; you can't own everything, and you can't keep anything. $BTC

There is a legendary post on the internet that says the best maintenance for the human body is not the gym, not supplements, nor secret formulas. Just three sentences: Control your mouth. Control your desires. Get a good night's sleep. ​​​

Where you fall is not necessarily where you should get back up. Actually, that's wrong. In the financial markets, where you have fallen before, you should avoid going back there. Go fish where there are fish. Avoid places with pitfalls. ​​​

There is this kind of personality: when unhappy, it doesn't show. When happy, it doesn't show either. When angry, it still doesn't show. When feeling down, it won't tell you. Then, silently, it deducts points from you in its heart until all points are gone. ​​​

Everyone must bravely make choices; everything is the best arrangement. Because at every stage, people can only make the best decisions they believe in based on their current understanding. The reason for later regrets is not that the initial choice was wrong, but that your understanding has grown. Those seemingly bad choices often serve as reminders of what we need to learn and change. It is through repeated experiences, mistakes, and corrections that a person truly grows. Many things that cause you pain now, when viewed over the course of a lifetime, ultimately become opportunities that drive you to break through yourself and enhance your understanding.

There are actually only two kinds of people truly worth having deep, repeated conversations with. One kind constantly broadens your understanding. Talking with them isn’t just passing time; it’s exchanging perspectives and refreshing your comprehension. A single conversation might reveal a world you hadn’t seen before. The other kind lets you completely let your guard down. In their presence, you don’t have to put on a front, weigh your words, or fear being misunderstood. You become natural, relaxed, even vulnerable like a child, and that flowing sincerity itself is a form of healing. Beyond that, much socializing is just emotional exhaustion. You say a lot, but your heart feels emptier and emptier.